Tell him that you had a great time and that you would like to see him again or text him and tell him that he s is a great guy but he is not what you are looking for in a man. Assisting with the bill, makes you appear helpful and understanding.ġ0. If you were asked on the date, don’t expect your date to pay the bill. It is rude to answer a phone or to text.ĩ. If you could travel the world, which are the five places you’d never miss?Ĩ. Who’s the person in your own life you admire most?ĭo you like spontaneity or do you like routine? It shows you care.Īre you a reader or are you more into movies?
After the fifth date, it might be a consideration but that is it.ħ. He is less likely to call back. It lowers the man’s opinion of you. You might be falling in love because of the attention and not the person. Don’t sleep with the guy! This is not your first rodeo. It creates negative energy and may scare him away.Ħ. Also, the worse thing that you can do is start swearing in your conversation. He may think you have an alcohol problem when you do not. Do not get drunk on your first date by having too many drinks. You may be nervous because you may have not had a date for a while. If he asks you about past relationships , tell him only positive aspects and say “we decided to move on”.that is all.ĥ. Stay away about talking about past relationships, work related problems, etc. I never went out with these guys again despite them calling me again for a second date. Trust me all these things have happen to me. Do not criticize your date’s hair, lack of hair, eyebrows, clothes, etc. Do not criticize other patrons, for example, pointing out how fat a guy is or make fun of straight people. Don’t make fun of the wait staff or complain about the service. Also, he may think your slutty and want to have sex and you really don’t want to but you gave him a false perception.Ĥ.
Keep your personal sexual stories private. We evolve as gay men as we get older. There are things that I wouldn’t do now that I did when I was younger. You may have been a slut 10 years ago, but you’re not any more. Your not applying for a car loan!Īlso, if you tell him, for example, about your sexual escapades, he might enjoy the story but he will figure you’re a slut and never call you again. Keep financial information and alike out of the conversation. If you leave a date, he will want to go out again because he will want more. If you tell him everything about you, he will not need to have a second date with you. Keep him wanting to learn more about you. We are 40 + years old, we have a lot we can tell. Don’t give away your story. Do not give out your life story on your first 5 dates. So many times when you least expect to meet a special someone, you do.ģ. You might meet a hot guy that you really like but you can’t scrape enough cash to go out. We all have mortgages, maybe alimony payments, kids going to college, etc. The worse thing you can do is not have the money to go on a date. Establish a Social Budget for 6-12 months. We all have busy lives and he may forget.Ģ. I know this sounds basic but there are many guys that don’t do this. Text him or call him to confirm the date, time and location the day before. It could be simple like meeting for coffee but know where you are going. It sends a message that you are unorganized and didn’t care enough to plan it. The worst thing you could do is ask him where to go on the day that you are going on the date. If you asked a guy out for a date, organize the date.